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To elope, most
literally, merely means to run away.
More specifically, elopement is
often used to refer to a marriage conducted in sudden and secretive fashion,
usually involving hurried flight away from one's place of residence.
In England, a
legal prerequisite of marriage was the "reading of the banns" — for the
three Sundays prior to the intended date of their ceremony, the names of
every couple intending marriage had to be read aloud by the priests of their
parishes of residence. (The intention
was to prevent bigamy or other unlawful marriages by giving fair warning to
anybody who might have a legal right to object. In practice,
however, it also gave warning to the couples' parents, who sometimes
objected on purely personal grounds.)
To contravene
this law, it was necessary to get a special license from the Archbishop of
Canterbury — or to flee somewhere the law did not apply. (Across the
border to Scotland, for instance, or aboard a ship since ship captains have
the right to perform marriages) In America,
more recently, some states required blood tests or waiting periods before
marriage; a couple
wishing to wed quickly (before, usually, their parents could object) would
travel to a state without such a rule. (In the musical
Guys and Dolls, for instance, a police officer suggests that Nathan Detroit
and Adelade, his fiancée of fourteen years, elope to Maryland which does not
require a blood test.) Today the term
is colloquially used for any hasty marriage or one performed away from home
with few (if any) guests. Some couples
find it romantic, for instance, to "elope" to Las Vegas, Nevada and be
married by an Elvis impersonator there. More seriously,
now that certain states and municipalities in the United States have begun
allowing same-sex marriage, elopement for legal reasons may see a
resurgence. |